If traumatic experiences, anxiety, PTSD symptoms, or distressing memories continue to affect your everyday life, EMDR therapy may be one treatment option to consider. At San Diego Psychotherapy Associates, licensed therapists provide individualized psychotherapy for adults and teens experiencing trauma-related and other emotional concerns.
EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing)is a structured psychotherapy approach that can help people process distressing memories and reduce the emotional intensity associated with them. Treatment begins with an assessment and preparation so your therapist can understand your history, current concerns, treatment goals, and whether EMDR is appropriate for you.
You do not need to know which type of therapy you need before contacting a therapist. An initial consultation gives you an opportunity to discuss your concerns, ask questions about EMDR, and understand your treatment options.
EMDR stands for Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing. It is a structured, clinician-led psychotherapy approach commonly used in trauma-focused treatment, including treatment for post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).
Unlike therapy that may rely primarily on conversation, EMDR incorporates bilateral stimulation during appropriate stages of treatment. This may include guided eye movements, alternating taps, or sounds. Your therapist guides you through a structured process while helping you remain aware of the present moment.
EMDR follows an eight-phase treatment framework:
The phases provide a framework rather than a rigid schedule. The amount of time spent in each phase can vary based on your history, symptoms, goals, emotional readiness, and treatment needs.
EMDR does not necessarily begin with trauma reprocessing during your first appointment. Preparation and stabilization may be an important part of treatment before processing distressing memories begins.
At San Diego Psychotherapy Associates, your therapist first considers your individual circumstances and treatment goals before determining whether EMDR should be part of your therapy plan.

EMDR may be considered for people experiencing distress connected to traumatic or deeply upsetting experiences. However, it is not automatically appropriate for everyone. Your therapist will consider your symptoms, history, current circumstances, goals, and readiness when discussing treatment options.
You may want to discuss EMDR with a therapist if you are experiencing:
EMDR may also be considered in treatment for other concerns depending on the individual situation. The level of research support varies by condition, so an appropriate professional assessment is important before selecting a treatment approach.
The goal is not to assume that EMDR is the right solution simply because someone is seeking trauma therapy. Your therapist can help determine whether EMDR, another therapeutic approach, or a combination of approaches may better fit your needs.
EMDR uses a structured treatment process to help you work with distressing memories, experiences, emotions, and physical sensations.
During appropriate reprocessing phases, your therapist may ask you to briefly focus on aspects of a distressing experience while following instructions for bilateral stimulation. This can involve guided eye movements, alternating taps, or sounds.
You remain involved throughout the process. Your therapist helps you notice what comes to mind while maintaining awareness of the present. Preparation and stabilization strategies may also be used to help you manage emotional distress.
The eight phases of EMDR provide structure throughout treatment, but they do not necessarily correspond to eight separate appointments.
Your therapist begins by understanding your current concerns, relevant history, strengths, symptoms, and treatment goals.
This information helps identify potential treatment targets and determine how EMDR may fit into your overall therapy plan.
2. Preparation
Before reprocessing begins, your therapist explains the EMDR process and helps you develop strategies for managing emotional distress.
Preparation may include grounding, calming, or other coping techniques. The amount of preparation needed varies from person to person.
3. Assessment
When you are ready to work with a particular experience, your therapist helps identify relevant aspects of the target, which may include images, thoughts, emotions, and physical sensations.
This stage helps establish what you will focus on during the reprocessing process.
4. Desensitization
During desensitization, you focus on aspects of the selected experience while following your therapist's instructions for bilateral stimulation.
You may notice thoughts, emotions, images, memories, or physical sensations as the process continues. Your therapist guides the process and monitors your response.
5. Installation
Your therapist helps strengthen a more adaptive or positive belief associated with the experience.
The goal is to support a healthier perspective that feels increasingly believable to you.
6. Body Scan
You are guided to notice whether any physical sensations or discomfort remain connected to the experience.
If distress remains, your therapist can continue working with the material as clinically appropriate.
7. Closure
Each reprocessing session includes a closure process.
Your therapist helps you return your attention to the present and use appropriate stabilization strategies before the session ends. Processing does not necessarily have to be completely finished within one appointment.
8. Reevaluation
At the beginning of subsequent sessions, your therapist reviews what has changed since the previous session.
Together, you can discuss new reactions, current triggers, progress, or other concerns and determine what should be addressed next.
The eight phases provide a treatment framework, not a fixed timeline. Your therapist uses clinical judgment to determine the appropriate pace and sequence based on your individual circumstances.

Your first EMDR appointment is generally focused on understanding your needs and determining whether EMDR is an appropriate treatment option. Trauma reprocessing does not necessarily begin during the first appointment.
Discuss What Brings You to Therapy
You can talk with your therapist about the concerns that led you to seek therapy. This may include anxiety, PTSD symptoms, difficult experiences, distressing memories, or other issues affecting your everyday life.
Review Your History and Goals
Your therapist may ask about relevant personal history, current circumstances, previous treatment, strengths, and what you hope to accomplish through therapy.
This information helps create an individualized treatment plan.
Learn About EMDR
Your therapist can explain how EMDR works, what the treatment phases involve, and what you may experience during therapy.
You can also ask questions and discuss any concerns before deciding whether you want to proceed.
Develop Preparation and Coping Strategies
If appropriate, early treatment may include grounding, calming, or other strategies that can help you manage emotional distress.
Some people may need more preparation before beginning trauma reprocessing.
Create an Individualized Treatment Plan
If EMDR appears appropriate, you and your therapist can identify treatment goals and establish a pace that is clinically appropriate for your situation.
Your treatment plan can be adjusted as therapy progresses.
You are not expected to have everything figured out before your first appointment. The initial consultation is an opportunity to understand your options and begin discussing a treatment plan.
Not necessarily.
EMDR involves discussing enough information for your therapist to understand your concerns, identify appropriate treatment targets, and develop a treatment plan. However, EMDR does not generally require prolonged, detailed verbal retelling of every aspect of a traumatic experience.
Your therapist will explain the process and help determine what information is clinically appropriate to address.
Preparation is also an important part of treatment. Before reprocessing distressing material, your therapist can help you develop strategies for managing emotional reactions and staying oriented to the present.
People can respond to EMDR therapy in different ways.
After a session, you may feel calm, tired, thoughtful, emotionally affected, or relatively unchanged. Some people notice changes in how they remember or think about an experience, while others notice changes gradually over the course of treatment.
Because processing may continue between appointments, you may notice new thoughts, emotions, memories, dreams, or physical sensations after a session.
These experiences can vary from person to person. If something feels concerning or disruptive, discuss it with your therapist so they can help you understand what you are experiencing and determine whether your treatment plan needs to be adjusted.
Between EMDR Sessions
Your therapist may encourage you to notice significant changes, emotions, triggers, memories, dreams, or other reactions between appointments.
This information can help you and your therapist evaluate what has changed and determine what should be addressed during a subsequent session.
EMDR is a collaborative treatment process. You can communicate with your therapist if you need to pause, slow down, or discuss how you are responding to therapy.
There is no fixed number of EMDR sessions that applies to everyone.
Treatment length can depend on:
A typical therapy session may last approximately 60 to 90 minutes, although session length can vary according to the therapist, treatment plan, and clinical needs.
One experience may require a relatively focused course of treatment, while people addressing multiple or complex experiences may need a longer course.
Preparation should not be viewed simply as a delay in treatment. For some people, developing coping and stabilization strategies is an important part of creating an appropriate treatment process.
At San Diego Psychotherapy Associates, your therapist will not promise a predetermined number of sessions before understanding your situation. Instead, you can work together to establish goals, monitor progress, and adjust the treatment plan when needed.

EMDR and traditional talk therapy can both provide a supportive environment for addressing difficult experiences, emotions, thoughts, and behaviors. However, the approaches use different methods.
Traditional talk therapy may focus on discussing current concerns, identifying patterns, exploring relationships, developing coping strategies, and understanding thoughts and emotions. Depending on the specific therapy, treatment may focus primarily on present-day concerns or explore how past experiences influence current life.
EMDR uses a structured eight-phase framework. When appropriate, your therapist identifies specific experiences or memories connected to your current concerns. During reprocessing, you may briefly focus on aspects of the experience while using bilateral stimulation such as guided eye movements, alternating taps, or sounds.
There is no single therapy approach that is appropriate for everyone. Your therapist can discuss the available options based on your symptoms, history, goals, preferences, and clinical needs.
Some people may use EMDR as a primary treatment, while others may benefit from combining EMDR with other therapeutic approaches.
Therapy goals help you and your therapist understand what you want to work toward during treatment.
Your goals do not need to be perfectly defined before therapy begins. Part of the initial assessment is identifying the experiences, triggers, concerns, and patterns that may be contributing to your current difficulties.
Potential EMDR therapy goals may include:
EMDR treatment can consider experiences from the past, situations affecting you in the present, and responses or skills you want to develop for the future.
Your therapist can help determine whether a specific goal is appropriate for EMDR and how it fits into your overall treatment plan.
When considering EMDR therapy, it is reasonable to ask about a clinician's professional license, EMDR training, clinical experience, relevant credentials, and treatment approach.
EMDR training and EMDRIA certification are not the same thing. Completing approved EMDR Basic Training indicates that a clinician has completed the applicable training requirements, while the voluntary EMDRIA Certified Therapist™ credential involves additional requirements, including consultation, clinical experience, continuing education, and other criteria.
When comparing therapists, you can ask:
Specific training and certification claims should be verified for the individual clinician before they are published or relied upon.

San Diego Psychotherapy Associates emphasizes individualized psychological care rather than applying the same treatment plan to every client.
Individualized Treatment Planning
Your first appointment gives you an opportunity to discuss what brings you to therapy, your current concerns, relevant history, and what you hope to change.
If EMDR appears appropriate, your therapist can explain how it may fit into your broader treatment plan.
Licensed Mental Health Professionals
The practice provides access to licensed clinical psychologists with different areas of clinical experience.
The appropriate therapist and treatment approach can depend on your individual concerns, goals, clinical needs, and preferences.
Therapist Matching
You do not need to decide which psychologist is right for you before contacting the practice.
During a complimentary consultation, you can speak with Dr. Romero about your concerns, questions, goals, and circumstances. She can use that information and a preliminary clinical assessment to help determine an appropriate psychologist and treatment approach.
Trauma-related treatment can involve sensitive experiences and emotions. Your therapist should explain the process, answer your questions, and work with you on a pace that is clinically appropriate and manageable.
You remain an active participant in treatment and can communicate with your therapist about your response to therapy.
EMDR Therapy in San Diego
If you are searching for an EMDR therapist in San Diego, you may be looking for support with distressing memories, trauma-related symptoms, PTSD, anxiety connected to difficult experiences, or other concerns that continue to affect your everyday life.
San Diego Psychotherapy Associates provides psychotherapy services for clients in the San Diego area. EMDR may be considered as part of an individualized treatment plan when a therapist determines that it is clinically appropriate for your concerns, history, and treatment goals.
EMDR may be used in trauma-focused treatment for adults and adolescents experiencing concerns such as PTSD symptoms, distressing memories, anxiety associated with traumatic experiences, phobias, and other trauma-related difficulties.
Treatment begins with an assessment rather than assuming that EMDR is the right approach for everyone.
Local, Individualized Mental Health Care
Working with a local psychotherapy practice can provide an opportunity to establish an ongoing therapeutic relationship and receive care tailored to your circumstances.
Depending on your situation and the therapist's availability and qualifications, you can also ask whether remote therapy options are appropriate.
The EMDR International Association provides a directory that can be used to locate EMDR-trained therapists by geographic area.
EMDR Therapy Cost and Insurance
The cost of EMDR therapy can vary depending on the therapist, session length, appointment frequency, insurance benefits, and whether treatment is covered as in-network or out-of-network mental health care.
At San Diego Psychotherapy Associates, prospective patients can ask about current fees, insurance participation, payment options, and reimbursement documentation during the consultation process.
Insurance coverage depends on your individual health plan and may be affected by provider status, benefits, treatment requirements, deductibles, copays, and other plan rules.

Insurance coverage for EMDR depends on your specific health plan and circumstances.
Before beginning treatment, consider asking your insurance company:
Having a therapy service listed as covered does not necessarily mean every session or service will be reimbursed.
Your insurance company is the most reliable source for confirming your individual benefits.
Private-Pay EMDR Therapy
If you choose to pay privately, ask your therapist or practice about the current session fee and payment arrangements before treatment begins.
You can also ask whether a superbill or detailed statement is available for potential out-of-network reimbursement.
If traumatic experiences, distressing memories, anxiety, or PTSD symptoms are affecting your everyday life, you do not have to determine your treatment options on your own.
An initial consultation with a licensed therapist can help you discuss your concerns, understand how EMDR works, and determine whether it may be an appropriate part of your care.
During your consultation, you can:
If EMDR is appropriate, your therapist can develop an individualized treatment plan based on your history, goals, current needs, and readiness.
You do not need to know exactly which psychologist or type of therapy you need before contacting San Diego Psychotherapy Associates.
Start with a conversation, ask your questions, and learn about your treatment options.
EMDR stands for Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing. It is a structured psychotherapy approach that uses an eight-phase treatment framework and may include bilateral stimulation such as guided eye movements, alternating taps, or sounds. It is commonly used in trauma-focused treatment, including PTSD.
No. EMDR is widely used in trauma-focused treatment for PTSD, but therapists may also consider it for other concerns depending on a person's symptoms, history, treatment goals, and clinical needs.
An individual assessment is important when determining whether EMDR is appropriate.
Not necessarily. Your therapist needs enough information to understand your concerns and develop an appropriate treatment plan, but EMDR does not generally require prolonged, detailed verbal retelling of every aspect of a traumatic experience.
Some memories or emotions may be difficult to process, and people can have different emotional or physical responses during or after treatment.
Your therapist can help you prepare for the process, monitor your response, and adjust the pace when appropriate.
There is no standard number of sessions for everyone. Treatment length depends on factors such as your goals, history, symptoms, the number and complexity of experiences being addressed, preparation needs, and response to treatment.
The first appointment may focus on your concerns, relevant history, treatment goals, explanation of EMDR, and whether the approach is appropriate.
Preparation and stabilization may occur before trauma reprocessing begins.
EMDR is a collaborative treatment. Talk with your therapist about how you can communicate when you need to slow down, pause, or discuss what you are experiencing.
Your therapist can help determine an appropriate pace and provide preparation and stabilization strategies when needed.
You do not have to choose a psychologist on your own. During a complimentary consultation, you can speak directly with Dr. Romero about your concerns, goals, questions, and circumstances.
Following the conversation and preliminary clinical assessment, Dr. Romero determines which psychologist may provide an appropriate clinical and personality fit for your needs.
EMDR may be provided through virtual platforms when telehealth is clinically appropriate and the therapist is properly trained and licensed for the service being provided.
Ask your therapist whether remote EMDR is appropriate for your circumstances and what preparation may be required.
The cost depends on factors such as the therapist, session length, insurance coverage, and payment arrangement.
Before beginning treatment, ask about the current session fee, insurance participation, deductibles, copays, out-of-network benefits, and reimbursement documentation.
The first step is to contact San Diego Psychotherapy Associates and schedule a consultation.
You can discuss what you are experiencing, ask questions about EMDR, and learn whether EMDR or another therapy approach may be appropriate for your needs.
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